Kristen’s Crazy Booth!!! | Fredericksburg Virginia Party Photographer

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So I know I’ve talked several times about my meetup group that I LOVE and this weekend we had a party for one of our co-organizers, Kristen who is leaving:(.  She is pursuing her dream job down in Florida and while we all will miss her terribly we are happy for her new adventure!  Kristen is one of those people that you cannot help but love immediately, she is so sweet and bubbly and is so great to new members of the group.  I like call her the walking encyclopedia of the group because she remembers so much about people after one meeting!  I can barely remember names and she not only remembers names but small details you might have told her in passing.  Random story here but at one breakfast meetup there was a new person and after finding out where they were from she quickly grabbed another group member who was from the same area and got them talking.  I was really blown away by her in that moment because not only is her memory incredible but she is the type of person to go out of her way to make you feel welcome and accepted.  When I first joined last year I was only able to make one meetup and I met Kristen, fast forward to this spring when I rsvped for another meetup and she sent me a message about how happy she was that I was coming out for another meetup.  I was so excited to see her again when I got that message!  This is just the type of person Kristen is, she genuinely cares about people and wants to know what is going on with your life!  Writing this post I’m realizing that our group is really going to be losing a huge part of the heart of our group.  I hope that if she finds a new meetup in Florida they realize how lucky they are to get her and if they don’t she can refer them to me and I’ll make sure they know how lucky they are!

In honor of her deserting us we had a Desserting Party where everyone brought fun sweets!  I volunteered to do a crazy booth and had a blast at the party store picking up fun props, every crazy booth needs props!  I think everyone had a blast writing messages to Kristen and playing around taking photos, I know I had a blast going though them. Funny story if you follow me on Facebook, so Saturday I posted that I had a bunch of popping balloons and I felt like I was taking enemy fire.  I had stopped at the party store and ordered 12 balloons, before I made it to the car 6 had already popped, the party store blew up another 10 for me to cover the popped ones.  As I was putting those in the car there was more popping!!  They wanted to blow up more but at this point I was getting frazzled by the popping and was like forget it I have 10 left that is fine.  As I’m driving more started popping, by the time I got to the house I had 7 left and 1 popped getting out of the car.  Out of 22 balloons we ended up with 6, so I had 16 balloons pop and I hate the sound of popping balloons.  It startles me and I don’t like that so by the time I got to the house I just wanted to be out of my car and away from the stupid balloons!!!  I seriously was feeling like someone was shooting at me and just getting the balloons instead!  Ok enough of my balloon drama and onto some crazy photos!  I’ve posted the photos here like I would do in a crazy booth album.  Head on over to Facebook to check out all the photos in my gallery under Melissa Arlena Photography!  While you are there don’t forget to Like Us!  You can also check out a slide show in the client galleries!

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melissa - Thanks Molly!!! Everyone looked fabulous for the party and I love how crazy we got!August 30, 2010 – 10:31 pm

Molly Amman - I love, love, love Melissa Arlena’s photography! It is impossible not to look beautiful when she is photographing you…which is kind of a great bonus!! :) August 30, 2010 – 9:25 pm

Location Inspiration | Wedding Photographer Virginia

In my continuing series of tips to help everyone get ready for their photo session I want to talk about locations today.  I love love love when clients choose their location for their sessions because that location says something about them as a couple or a family.  It can be the site of their first date, an activity that they love to do or even a type of place that fits with their personality.  I picked Old Town Alexandria for my engagment session location because it was the site of our first date and every time I go there I think about dumping a drink in my husbands lap on that date.  Combine klutzy with nervous and you end up with David wearing Ginger Ale, I was mortified!!!  Now it is a funny memory and something I will always associate with Alexandria.  Some people come to me with location ideas in mind already while some need a little bit of coaxing from me to find something that fits with their personality.  No matter where the location though it is never just one spot that we will stay in and shoot the whole session.  I love to wander around a new location and find little nooks and crannies that I know will work great in photos.  If you are stuck on ideas for a location think about the questions I’ve listed below and see what resonates with you!

This will sound like a dating questionairre but I swear I did not rip it off from match or eharmony!

1.  Where is your favorite place to go?  Do you love the mountains, a local park, your grandparents lake house?  Your favorite place has meaning to you and that makes your photos there special! 

2.  What is your favorite thing to do? Hobby or interest?  Are you a home renovator and spend all your time at the hardware store?  Do you spend time on your boat?  Is date night spent at the batting cages?  I know photo sessions can be stressful and I want to make sure it is fun for you so if working your nerves off with a few rounds in the batting cage works then lets do your session there!  One of my favorite photographers Melissa Jill did an engagement session at Home Depot because her clients spend all their free time there while renovating their new house.  While searching for a link to that session I found an article Melissa wrote about spicing up an engagement session that I want to share!  Click here!  You can see the Home Depot photos also!   

3.  What is your style?  Are you vintage glam or rustic country?  If you are most comfortable in your jeans and a cute plaid shirt then something very natural like a field or a farm with a barn would be an awesome place for your session.  By the way if you know someone with a farm and a cool paint peeling barn in the area  please let me know I’m on the lookout for one!!  If you love to dress up and are very fashionable lets check out a modern art museum.  Oh how about a winery?  There are so many wonderful places to shoot at a winery, I was up at Tarara Winery a couple months ago and I’m dying to go back and shoot there again.  I would love to incorporate more of the grape fields and the rustic buildings! 

If all else fails pick something quirky!  There is an adorable miniature golf place on Route 1 just before Stafford that I would love to shoot a session at.  It is so cute and painted with pretty colors and I think it would be so much fun!  Another crazy idea would be a vintage flea market or something with lots of unusual props to play around with.  I love Downtown Fredericksburg because it reminds me of Old Town Alexandria and I love the feel of that. 

A location is a lot more then just the backdrop of your photos, it needs to be a place that you feel comfortable in and can relax and have a good time.  At the end of the day though what makes your photos awesome is you and not a specatacular location!  Of course I can’t have a post without a photo so here is this cool old boat I took a photo of over our Memorial Day weekend trip to Colonial Beach.  Between this boat, the field behind it and the water on the other side that right there is 3 awesome spots to shoot all in a 25ft radius.   My point is don’t rule out quirky! lol!

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Cool Boat at Colonial Beach Yacht Club

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melissa - I know right!! Lowes would have been a great location for my engagement photos bc we are there all the time!August 30, 2010 – 6:27 pm

Amanda - I love that Home Depot idea!!! :D August 29, 2010 – 12:44 am

Love It! Hate It!: Words With Friends & No Contact | Fredericksburg Virginia Wedding Photographer

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It has been fun to see my Love It! Hate It! posts getting shared by my friends on Facebook and Twitter!! You guys rock! I also laugh when I check out my stats and see how many people are finding me through these posts and the things they are searching for when they stumble across me. Things like “tubing ” and “saying good bye to summer vacay” and “river weddings” have come up! I realized today that these posts are really a chance for me to appreciate some things I am thankful for in my life and to acknowledge things I am struggling with. I think it will be kind of fun to look back on these in a couple years and see how much I’ve overcome and relive some fond memories! So here we go!

Love It!

1. Impromptu Parties! Monday night I had a very impromptu birthday party for a friend at the house and it was great to be able to call a few girls from my meetup group that are in the area and have them come over. We cooked dinner, drank wine, ate ice cream cake and had great conversation! It was such a wonderful evening that I’m thinking we will have to do at least once a month or so!! I’m so thankful to have made so many wonderful friends through my group and be able to call them up at a moments notice and plan something.

2. Nike Cropped Sweat Pants! I went shopping with a friend on Monday and we hit up the Nike store so she could pick up her fall outfit that will inspire her to run. Yes gentlemen we ladies need a new outfit to inspire us to exercise. It is the only part about exercising that we look forward to. If you are going to be sweaty and nasty you better be rockin a hot outfit to distract everyone! So I’ve never been a sweatpants person, sorry I just think they look sloppy, but she picked up a pair of cropped sweat pants. I have to say they looked pretty cute! When I say a pair in navy blue I was sold and when I wore them to bed the other night I was in heaven. They were super comfy and with the cropped leg I didn’t feel so sloppy, I felt cute:)They aren’t quite having the effect of wanting to go running though, more like they make me want to sit on the couch with a bowl of ice cream and watch romantic comedies. Thank goodness the two t-shirts have inspired me to get off the couch and at least go for a walk in the morning with the pups. See I just needed a new outfit to inspire me;)

3. Words With Friends! I’m seriously addicted to this game, David was ready to take my phone away while we were on vacation because of it. My sister and I currently have a war going with each other that I’m thinking is never going to end. We’ve both managed to sneak in last minute attacks to win and the points spread is less then 10. I disagree with half her words though, I think if you can’t use it in a sentence then it is a no go! Since when is queasy spelled with a Z instead of an S. I’m pretty sure my 4th grade teacher would have marked that one wrong if I spelled it with a Z. WWF gave her like 40 points for it or something ridiculous. Even my spell check on this post says that a Z is WRONG!!! I got her back though, “Distance” on two TL and one TW and I rocked out at 72 points! Find me as melissaarlena and let’s get a game going, feed my obsession!

Hate It!

1. No Contact! So it has been a couple days now since I heard from my husband and I know this is normal but it still freaks me out. I know I’m not supposed to do it but I did check CNN to make sure something hadn’t happened over there. I know that he is busy now and as soon as he can he will contact me. It is just sucky though in the meantime.

2. Gained Weight! Ugh so I was doing so well until I went on vacation and then I gained back 6lbs that I had lost. So now it is back to working on my diet and doing more to work out. The pups and I are walking every morning now and I’m trying to get us up to 2 miles. Maxie wasn’t so happy with the walk today but she seems to have recovered from it now. Next I need to throw out all the bad sweets and beer so I no longer have temptation in the house.

I’m doing pretty good this time as I only have 2 things to hate! Thanks for stopping by and maybe I will see you on Words with Friends soon!

Melissa Arlena

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CrazyBooth & a DIY Chalkboard | Wedding Photographer Fredericksburg Va

I have a party coming up in a couple weeks that I’m going to setup a crazy booth at!  So what is a crazy booth you might ask, it is a place where your guests can have funny photos made similar to the photo booths you see in the mall.  I’ve seen the photographer version referred to as a faux-to booth also, I like to call it the crazy booth because I want you to get crazy and have fun!  Basically I find an area at your party or wedding reception where I can setup a backdrop or use a nice wall as a backdrop.  I will setup a camera on a tripod with additional lighting and have myself or an assistant there to take photos of your guests.  We can shoot color or go with the more traditional photo booth style of black and white.  I like having my crazy booths staffed with a photographer to interact with guests and really capture those crazy moments!  When you hire us for a crazy booth we will take photos of your guests and upload them to Facebook and on online proofing gallery for guests to purchase.  We also offer a cool album of your guests photos for you to purchase as a keepsake!  Below you can see my attempt to convince you to hire us for your next party or wedding reception!

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blank CrazyBooth & a DIY Chalkboard  | Wedding Photographer Fredericksburg Vaphotobooth

To get ready for the party I started brainstorming a few cute props for the booth.  I think everyone loosens up a little when there are fun props to play around with.  With a quick trip to your local party store you can find an array of masks, hats, funny mustaches, boas and beads!  If your wedding has a theme I’ve seen awesome setups including a rowboat for a nautical theme.  My favorite prop for a crazy booth is a pretty chalkboard!  It is fun to write messages to your friends and have your photo taken with it.  A quick look at Etsy and you can find beautiful frames with chalkboards ready for use.  For this project I thought it would be fun to make my own but I wanted to keep the cost under $20 or so per chalkboard.  I spent a day perusing the antique stores of Downtown Fredericksburg Virginia looking for frames that had beautiful details to them but after looking in too many stores to count I couldn’t find what I was looking for in the right price range.  I found lots of beautiful frames but they were over $100 with paintings in them so that just wasn’t working.  On my way home I stopped by the Fred Goodwill to drop off some donations and thought I’d give it a shot.  Score!!!  I found a beautiful frame with lots of details and it was $4, insert happy dance here!!!! I looked for a larger frame but didn’t see anything with the detail I was looking for.  Next stop was Michaels for the rest of the supplies I would need.  You can find these things at your local craft store or hardware store.  As Pioneer Woman says check out the photo below for the cast of characters for this project!

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Can I just say that Michaels is probably the store I spend the most time in, I love to just walk around and get inspired! Michaels and I got pretty close when I was getting married, it was getting a little out of control the amount of time we were spending together. They kept giving me 40% off coupons to come back and well I just couldn’t turn those coupons down. So anyway back to my supply list, I knew I needed chalkboard paint, a thin small sheet of wood and chalk. While I was there I stopped by the framing aisle and found the open frames were on sale for 40% off already! Perfect I was able to pick up a larger frame for $15, not as good as my $4 deal but much better then the $100+frames I saw in the antique stores. Next it was off to the wood section in the back where I found the spray paint and the thin birch wood that would be my chalkboard for both frames. I loved that I was able to get everything at Michaels and with my $4 frame the total came out to under $40 for this project, divide that by two frames and I was in my goal range.

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Here is a closeup of the board I picked up and the paint I used, I forgot to include the white spray paint as that was something I already had and hadn’t pulled out of the cabinet yet. I used the primer on the birch wood piece as my base coat before the chalkboard paint. I wanted to eliminate multiple coats of chalkboard paint to cover the light wood. You can purchase the birch wood in several sizes I chose a larger size so that I could cut two pieces from it. I ended up using my table saw to cut my pieces but I’ve heard if you purchase your thin piece of wood from Lowes or Home Depot they will cut it to size for you.
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So I headed outside with some newspaper, white primer spray paint and my frames. I think I’m a little heavy handed with my spray painting but I try to do the thin light coats they recommend. I watch a lot of HGTV so I tried to mimic the techniques I’ve seen on countless shows. I followed the directions on the can and put the second coat on within an hour. After that I let them sit for 24 hours before I sprayed the high gloss white onto them. Here is the before and after of my $4 frame!
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Don’t these frames corners look so pretty in white now!
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So unfortunately I don’t have photos of the wood being spray painted as it started raining and I had to run out and grab everything and let it dry in the house. With the rain came dark clouds and bad photo conditions in the house. The wood was easy though, I used the gray primer first and then after that dried I went over it with the chalkboard paint. I waited a day between the two applications but that was just because of my timing on the project. Once they dried I lightly sanded them to take away the rough bumpy finish. Make sure you go lightly or you will have to spray them again. After that I prepped them by covering them with a piece of chalk and then wiping it off with a damp sponge. After that I was able to write on them and wipe it off with a paper towel with no problems! Here is the finished product….
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Here is a message for my hubby!
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So I have a huge appreciation for Young House Love and all the step by step blog posts they put up. This took me almost an entire day after shooting the photos to edit them and then put them into a blog post and write everything up. The actual project was spread out over a couple days with all the painting but I’m betting you could do it from start to finish in a day if you wanted.
Melissa Arlena

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